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Remember names when you meet people

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    Actually hear it first.

    Most forgotten names were never heard: you were rehearsing your own introduction. Listen for it deliberately.

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    Say it back within seconds.

    "Nice to meet you, Maria." One repetition at the start doubles retention.

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    Hook it to something visible.

    Rhyme, job, resemblance to someone you know. The sillier the hook, the stickier.

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    Use it once more before parting.

    A natural goodbye with the name closes the loop.

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    Write it down after.

    Phone note with context: "Maria, Lena’s neighbour, plays volleyball." Names survive in sentences.

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